AUTHENTICALLY YOU, PERFECTLY MATCHED
Lavendare
COMPASS QUESTIONNAIRE
This is not a personality quiz. This is a pause.
Before you try to find someone… before you swipe, impress, or overthink—Lavendare asks something different:
🧭 Where are you, really?
🪞 Who have you been bringing into your story… and why?
✍🏽 What kind of life are you truly writing from here?
The Connection Compass is not a test.
It’s a mirror, a map, and a sacred invitation back to yourself.
You won’t be asked to perform here.
You won’t be matched with fantasy.
You’ll be met with honesty, curiosity, and the gentle truth of your own energy.
You are the author.
This is the first page of your next chapter.
Questionnaire
WHY YOU'RE HERE
We know the companion/apps game can be exhausting endless swipes, awkward small talk, forcing chemistry that’s just not there.
Lavendare is different because:
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Self-awareness first: Before matching, you explore your own rhythms, values, and non-negotiables via our Connection Compass.
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Lifestyle compatibility matters: It’s not just “likes” on the surface. Travel pace, energy cycles (morning person vs. night owl), creative habits, spiritual or secular leanings, pet-friendliness—these details shape real-life compatibility.
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Authenticity attracts authenticity: Show up as you are. The quirks, the passions, the “hell yes!” activities and “nope” vibes. Real connections get built on honesty.
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Community support: You’re not solo in this. Access optional circles, prompts, and group events where fellow members share insights, tips, and encouragement.
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Zero tolerance for BS or exploitation: We enforce safety and respect. Anything shady, creepy, or harmful (especially relating to minors or vulnerable folks) gets shut down immediately.
RESULTS of TRUTH
Complete (or Review) Your Connection Compass
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If you haven’t yet: carve out ~30–45 minutes, grab your favorite drink, and dive deeply. Answer prompts honestly—no “playing small” or “what sounds good.”
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If you already completed it: revisit your responses. You might notice new insights now that you’ve settled in. Update any answers if your priorities or circumstances shifted.